Wednesday, November 6, 2024

Private Tutor

Going into the weekend, I had nothing booked for Monday, so I was glad when something popped up Sunday evening. Then, Monday morning I got a call from the sub desk asking if I could switch from that assignment to the alternative education center. Sure, why not? 

I was told that I would have one seventh grade student. I'm used to going with the flow when it comes to that school, so I figured all would be explained when I got there. 

Basically, this seventh grade boy, Walter, was being isolated from the other students for reasons, so he had his very own teacher. But, that third teacher at the school had taken a new position at a new school, so they were getting various subs to watch Walter. I was sub number five. Although, I was the last sub as they were planning to move Walter back with the other students the next day.

With that kind of build up, you'd think that working with Walter would have been difficult. It wasn't. Of course, my bar is low as there was no throwing of chairs...

We started with science, and I managed to find a plate tectonic simulation, and Walter enjoyed playing with that. (That was where he was in the science textbook.) Then we switched over to math.

Walter knew how to do the math. He finished it very quickly. And then I checked his answers. Um, nope. 

So, I made him slow down, and we did it together. 

At some point, I pointed out that his arithmetic was off. We were adding together two odd numbers, so our answer should be even. 

And that's when I found out Walter didn't know the difference between odd and even. 

It's always interesting to find gaps in a student's knowledge. That was one I wasn't expecting. I took the time to explain. Did Walter grasp it? I have no idea. He rejected the idea that five wasn't an even number for a while. I hope this lesson comes up again to reinforce the concept, but I have no idea if it will. At least Walter accepted that I might know what I was talking about.

After lunch, we rounded out the day with art and reading. For art class, I found a how-to video. This one:

(It was Halloween week. I decided to go with the season.)

Walter wasn't having it. He wanted to trace something easy. I urged him to give it a try. Finally he found a step by step video of something else and did that. 

(It's a middle school thing. They want things perfect. I push for them to allow themselves to make mistakes.)

And then finally, we were at the last hour of the day. He'd been reading The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas and was on the last three chapters. Knowing this was his last day solo, I pushed to finish the book. Walter said he was only reading one chapter a day. 

Eventually, we did get to the finish. I don't know if Walter appreciated this, but at least we finished something in his time in a class solo. 

That's the thing about subbing. Every day is different, and I never know what I may step into. This could have been such a difficult day, but it wasn't, really. I hope Walter is doing well with the other kiddos at the school. One of these days, I might even get a chance to see for myself. 

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  1. I'm sure there are a lot of Walters out there who need some special help. Who knows, but you gave him a nudge in a direction that will help him succeed in being solo. Hope so.

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    1. I'm sure there are a lot of Walters out there who need some special help. Who knows, but you gave him a nudge in a direction that will help him succeed in being solo. Hope so.https://substack.com/home/post/p-150486288

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    2. He got something accomplished. That's something at least.

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  2. Hi Liz - I guess you can only try to give them new ideas ... and then they 'can remember' what they want to ... difficult - well done though - no thrown chairs - cheers Hilary

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  3. You may have done more good than you think. I hope you do find out more about this student one day. Not throwing chairs is indeed a low bar but, with an autistic brother in law, I understand a little.

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  4. It’s good you caught the odd/even lack. That was a big thing for him to have missed. Must be hard on students like Walter to have teachers come and go so frequently.

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    1. Yeah, it was silly to do it this way. But sometimes school districts can do silly things.

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  5. thecontemplativecat here. silly things, sometimes? Many times. I have had similar students kick chairs at me, hit me with a ruler, etc. You are a saint, and you walked him through some empty holes in his understanding.

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    1. Not a saint, not by a long shot. Students can be a challenge sometimes.

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  6. Sounds like he had a good day with you.

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  7. I haven't yet tried do an grim reaper.

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    1. There are so many videos with them. I was going to share my attempt, but I never got around to photographing it.

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  8. Aww.. I liked this story. Now I want to know more about Walter….

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    1. I may get over there again eventually. I'll have to remember to update.

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  9. Sounds like you were a good influence and big help for Walter.

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    1. I don't know about "good influence"... It's a strange school.

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  10. It sounds like you and Walter were a good fit.

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  11. It sounds like he may have a learning disability. You taking the time to help him, was exceptional. I still remember my one teacher taking his time with me and admonished the kids who were laughing at me. He gave me the strength to keep going. K wonder if he remembers it...probably not.

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    1. He's special ed, so yeah, there's a learning disability there. Kids can be cruel, and it's good when the adults in the vicinity don't let them get away with it.

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