These middle schoolers...
There's this boy who asked to go by K3 in class (so since that's anonymous enough, I'll use it here). He has his moments of being a reasonable student and then he has other moments of play. So, typical seventh grader.
I've had issues with getting the kiddos to turn in their work. I tell them when it's due. I call for it. But many don't have it done even though they had time in class to complete it (or I let them finish what they didn't finish in class for homework).
But, the general rule is they can turn in late work, and I'm okay with this as I'd rather they turn it in and get credit rather than taking the F. (I want them to succeed.)
So, last week K3 gave me a stack of four or five assignments that he was missing. Okay, fine. But then he follows it up with:
"You need to grade these quickly. My dad won't let me play sports until I get my grades up."
Um...
Wisely, I did not reply. He handed them to me at the end of class, as he was leaving. And I chose not to give him a piece of my mind.
Because, really? Him not turning his work in a timely manner makes it my responsibility to input those grades immediately?
*taps sign*
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Over the weekend, I took home some grading. I got it input into the gradebook and everything. (It felt great to be caught up Monday morning.) First thing Monday morning I found an email from Nadia.
Nadia stated that she was missing an assignment in the gradebook that she had turned in.
I don't normally lose student work. (I don't even lose pens or socks. It's freakish, really.) But, I took a quick look just to make sure I hadn't overlooked it. Nope. But, I did have one paper missing a name.
I emailed this back to Nadia. The next time she was in class, she checked the paper. Yup, it was hers. She put her name on it and gave it back to me.
I'm lucky in that I have a last period conference period. When my last class leaves, I have a full period of time to close out the day and get prepped for the next one. I have made it my habit to go through the stack of late turned in work right after I've noted any things I need to note from the day (keeping track of who was tardy and who had a cell phone, that sort of thing).
I had just gotten through the stack of late work, and I was checking email before moving on to the next thing that needed my attention. Nadia had sent me an email. I noted the time of the email. 3:01 PM. I looked at the clock. It was 3:04 PM.
Nadia reminded me that she had resubmitted her assignment and it needed to be entered into the gradebook.
Ahem.
I was sorely tempted to go into the gradebook and erase the score. But I am an adult. I resisted.
I went back to the email as I was going to add it to this post. Reading it now, it doesn't sound as bad as it sounded when I read it the first time. The first time, I was a bit put out. Because, I had just entered her grade into the gradebook. Right when she sent the email.
I mean, I get where the kiddos are coming from. And I'm keeping up with the grading. Really. I am.
But when they insist I take care of their stuff immediately? That they got to me late?
*shakes head* Middle schoolers...
You need to put up that sign in your classroom immediately! I get inquiring if it's been a few days, but they are both being ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteYes, they are. They'll learn. Eventually.
DeleteThey fail to remember they aren't the only student, and you have many, many, many other papers to deal with! Then again, I've heard it complained (sometimes rightfully) that teachers give homework like they teach the only class the student gets homework for!
ReplyDeleteAt least I wasn't one of those teachers ;) Homework was anything they didn't complete in class. Some had more homework because theyd didn't get much done in class, but that was a them problem.
DeleteThey still haven't learned the world does not revolve around them. Some people never learn.
ReplyDeleteThat's a sad truth.
DeleteOh I don't think I could hold back after that happened more than once. I think I would put some rules about giving me time to get the grades in the book before bothering me about it. lol
ReplyDeleteI probably would have made an announcement to the whole class about grading gets done when it gets done, but I was just about done with the gig, so I let it slide.
DeleteMiddle schoolers.
ReplyDeleteYup.
DeleteI understand how frustrating it can be when students want immediate grading for late work. You're handling it well.
ReplyDeleteThey're used to ordering their parents around. It's telling. Those who can't do that with their parents don't try it with me.
DeleteWas I that bad as a 7th grader? Maybe. Probably. But someone has had that sign up in every office I've worked in. Obviously, some people never develop past 7th grade mindsets.
ReplyDeleteThe sign is a classic for a reason. It doesn't apply to everyone, but there is always someone. It may not be you. In fact, if you are aware of the sign, it is likely not you.
DeleteAlways did my best to help them out, but I fully agree with the "not an emergency on my part" credo.
ReplyDeleteOh yes, definitely. I did grade in a timely manner. It was just the idea that they thought they could demand that I grade their *late work* right away.
DeletePut that sign up and point to it often!
ReplyDeleteWe all need one, I think.
DeleteWe have that sign posted outside our "office" (we call it the cave because we're developers). It's so true.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter is past middle school and is able to manage her homework pretty well now. My son will be in middle school next year. I'm pretty sure he'll be like K3...
It's true for so many. Sadly.
DeleteMiddle schoolers ... but you're wise to keep the peace ... cheers Hilary
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