I was perusing Twitter, as I do, and I stumbled upon this gem:
What if everyone had a midlife crisis at the actual midpoint of their life but didn’t know it?? Like if you had a particularly harrowing 24th year that was actually your midlife crisis because you’re gonna die at 48. Just another one of my terrible thoughts
— caitie delaney (@caitiedelaney) September 21, 2021
I've been thinking about this one for two days...
Then I'll live into my 90s! I consider the time when my husband suddenly died to be my particularly "harrowing" year. Nothing to consider crises before that. If we all knew that about our mid-life though, we'd live in fear and death will be a self fulfilling prophecy, I think. As for the example, a "harrowing" year at age 24 probably isn't as bad as things to come when you're older!
ReplyDeleteWith anything, it depends on the individual.
DeleteActually you've given me a lot of hope, its possible I'm having a midlife crisis right now at 50 but you do realize what this means? I'm going to live to a 100. So thanks and cheers to that idea, me likey.
ReplyDeleteThen I am going to live to my mid 90's. Good news!
ReplyDeleteThat is good news.
DeleteI remember having a series of panic attacks around the age of 20 over the fact that life is finite. I'm ten years out from when I could have died and that's good. :)
ReplyDeleteDoes that mean worse is yet to come? That's either a good thing or a bad thing.
DeleteIf I didn't know it, then I wouldn't be worried.
ReplyDeleteBut if I know "this crisis" is the actual "mid-life crisis", then depending upon when that happens, I would have an idea of how long I'd live, and then I'd have ideas about how I should live the 2nd half my life.
I should be dead by now but, maybe I will live for another 57 years considering my recent issues.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I think this year qualifies as your crisis year. Good news?
DeleteThat's very interesting. Huh.. Now I'm looking back trying to see crisis points! Lol
ReplyDeleteThat's what stuck with me. I wonder...
DeleteYikes....what a thought but if it happened and I did not know it then I guess it would not matter that much.
ReplyDeleteYeah, if you weren't aware of the crisis point, then it would all be a terrible surprise.
DeleteWhat an interesting idea. Would someone living in a constant state of crisis never die? Now that's a horrible thought I gave myself. Yikes...
ReplyDeleteThat's an interesting thought...
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