Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Broken Record, Student Edition

Wednesday. English 9, special day class (read: special ed). Fourth period.  

The lesson plans had all sorts of warnings about this class, including the note that this was her least favorite class. The instructional assistant went on to warn me that the half the kiddos just didn't care no matter what they did. So, I was prepared for the worst. 

And... things weren't that bad. They were doing a vocabulary assignment that went along with their reading of To Kill a Mockingbird, and then they could use that assignment on a quiz for the last couple chapters they read in class. 

Early in the period, Kaleb asked to use the restroom. He returned in a timely manner. 

About halfway through the period the instructional assistant left (as that was her usual quitting time). 

It was almost the end of the period, and Kaleb again asked to use the restroom. I said no. 

Kaleb was not pleased. He asked why he could not go. 

I explained that he had already gotten one restroom pass in the class, and getting one pass out of class was all he was going to get. Besides, there were only ten minutes left in the class period, and the school administration had instituted a rule that no students were to be allowed out of class for those last ten minutes. 

Kaleb did not see my point. One pass per period? That was unreasonable as far as he was concerned. 

So, he asked again. Could he go and use the restroom? And again, I said no. 

"But why?"

Me: "I already explained why." 

Kaleb argued that when he asked the first time there had been eleven minutes left of class. (According to the clock on my computer, it had been less than ten minutes.) But even he couldn't argue that since the first time he asked time had passed, and at this point there was definitely less than ten minutes left of class. 

Then, Kaleb: "Can I go to the restroom?" 

Again, I answered no. Again, Kaleb asked why. And again, I said that I had already explained. 

This time Kaleb offered that he would be able to get to the restroom and back before the end of the period. (Likely true, as the restroom was just steps away from the classroom.) I did not doubt him, but I did not give permission. 

It was now time for the class to start getting packed up, so I made that announcement. Kaleb? Asked to use the restroom again. And again, he asked why not?

Now the rest of the class was invested. They encouraged Kaleb to just walk out. If it was them, they would just walk out. (If it was them and earlier in the period, I would have let them go as they hadn't used their pass for the period.) Kaleb did not take the dare. 

Around we went again. Maybe twice? I lost count. Eventually, time ran out. The bell rang. And they all left. 

Deep sigh. I'm not sure why Kaleb thought that repeatedly asking me the same questions would get different results, but freshmen. Kaleb did not realize just how stubborn I can be when pushed. 

11 comments:

  1. Oof, I've volunteered a bunch at our local schools. The one thing that drove me the most crazy were kids who did this. When I say no, I mean it. Ask again, and I mean it even more! I think they must have parents that this type of pestering works on?

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    1. That's the only thing I can think of. Because seriously? You can also tell the students whose parents don't put up with this sort of thing as they don't attempt it.

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  2. Hi Liz, just to let you know, Rajani Rehana is a spammer. She doesn't read our posts, only comments on practically every blog she can, and says the exact same words as above, in two comments.
    As far as school goes, all I can say is that it has changed dramatically over the decades. I can't say much more than this because I do not have children, so I don't know a lot but thanks to your posts I am seeing how things are today! So thank you so much for sharing.

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    1. I only write about the interesting things, so it isn't as bad as some of my posts paint it out to be. (I hadn't had a chance to delete the posts before you got here today. Just ignore her, and I'll delete the comment when I have a chance.)

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  3. Ughhh, I would not have the patience for that!

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  4. Will he learn that no means no? Maybe not as it would seem that constant pestering works, at least on some people.

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  5. I will have to assume if he had an emergency need he would have mentioned it!

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    1. I've had the emergency conversation with kiddos. Yeah, that I would have allowed.

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  6. Special ed acquires new dimensions with Kalebs around.

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